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Your day, Your WAY.
A guide for couples who actually want to be present for the day they’re planning.
CLIENT WEDDING GUIDE
BEFORE YOU BEGIN
one question before you read the guide.
If no one had any expectations about your wedding (no opinions, no traditions, no "but you have to") what would the day look like?
Hold on to that answer. Come back to it whenever something in here doesn't feel right for you.
I have photographed a lot of weddings and I'm happy to share everything I know but your gut knows your day better than I do.
Any advice in here that doesn't fit, leave it.
HELLO FRIENDS
you’re getting married!
And if you're here, you've probably already decided you want to be present for it - not spend the day performing for a camera or checking things off a list someone else wrote.
That's exactly the kind of day I'm here for.
This guide covers the practical stuff: what to expect, how to think about your timeline, and a few things I've learned from witnessing couples get married that might make your day feel easier and more like you.
Read through when you have a quiet moment. Reach out anytime with questions. I'm so glad you're letting me be part of this.
ONE
I show up. I pay attention.
I won’t stop your day to manufacture moments. My job is to be present enough to catch what's happening, and invisible enough that it actually happens.
HOW I WORK
I’M NOT GOING TO POSE YOU.
The photos you'll look back on most (the ones that actually feel like you) are always the ones where you forgot I was there.
TWO
Close enough, far enough.
I arrive early. I learn the space. I figure out where the light is. Close enough to catch things, far enough away that people forget I'm there.
THREE
Direction without posing.
Sometimes I'll give you something to do (walk, talk, look there). That's not posing. It's somewhere to put your attention so your bodies relax into something natural.
Here’s what I’m bringing to your day.
A few things you don't have to worry about because they're already handled.
0102A timeline that has room to breathe.
I'll help you think it through and flag anything that might create stress.
0304WHAT YOU CAN COUNT ON
A team that is already in sync.
I'll reach out to your other vendors ahead of time so we're working as a team and not meeting for the first time on the day.
A calm presence when things wobble.
I'll be the steady person in the room when things run a little behind. They always do.
Photos made with care, not for content.
I'm not making content. I'm making a record of something real. Every photo is edited with the same intention I'd want for my own wedding day.
A SMALL TIP
The single best thing you can do for your photos is plan a day you actually want to have. Presence creates better photos than any pose ever will.
"The photos that will matter most won't be the ones where you were trying to look good. They'll be the ones where you forgot to try."
ON FEELING AWKWARD
YOU DON’T HAVE TO PERFORM FOR ME.
Almost every couple says some version of this to me before their wedding: "I'm not photogenic." "I never know what to do with my hands." "I feel so awkward in front of the camera."
And honestly? Most people feel awkward in front of a camera. That's normal. But here's what actually changes it: trusting the person holding the camera.
When someone points a camera at you without really thinking about what they're capturing, you tense up. You become aware of your hands, your face, your movements. When you trust the person behind the lens (knowing they're paying attention, seeing you, making something out of what's in front of them) it feels different.
Your only job on your wedding day is to be present. To show up as yourself and let the day happen. The beauty is already there. I'm just the one looking for it.
The couples session before your wedding exists partly for this reason. We get to build trust and by the time your wedding day arrives, I'm no longer a stranger with a camera. You'll already know what it feels like to have me in the room.
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The couples who end up loving their photos most are the ones who cared the least about the camera and the most about each other.
GETTING READY
The morning is worth documenting.
There's a specific energy in those morning hours - the anticipation, the quiet moments with people you love - and those are worth documenting.
Natural light. If you can get ready near a window, do it. Good light makes a real difference and it's the easiest thing to plan for.
Timing. Hair and makeup almost always run a little long. Build in a buffer. Even 30 extra minutes can completely change the energy of your morning. A rushed start follows you through the whole day.
Who's in the room. You get to decide. A room full of your closest people, just your partner, just you - whatever feels right.
Details. If there's anything meaningful you want documented before the day gets going (a piece of jewelry that belonged to someone, a letter you wrote to each other, something that tells a part of your story) let me know and I'll make sure to capture it.
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Getting ready together doesn't mean giving up the first look. You can absolutely have that reveal when you're both fully dressed and gain the whole morning together too. For a lot of couples, that's worth everything.
If you aren't intentional about building time with your partner into the day, it doesn't happen. You get swept up in the current of it and suddenly you're at dinner wondering when you last had a quiet moment together.
If that matters to you, plan for it. Protect it. Put it on the timeline so it doesn't get swallowed by everything else.
When I ask couples what they actually want their day to feel like, most of them say the same thing: they want to be with their person. If that's you, make it happen on purpose. It won't just happen on its own.
YOUR PERSON
The day goes faster than you're expecting.
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Even with a hundred things pulling you in different directions, you can build in protected moments. A quiet breakfast. Five minutes alone after the ceremony. Sneaking away for sunset portraits. Ten minutes at dinner before the toasts. Small pockets of intentional time add up to a day that felt like yours.
FROM MY OWN WEDDING
My partner and I woke up and made breakfast together, did our own self-care but got ready in the same house, did a first look, and spent the majority of the morning enjoying each other's company. We walked into the ceremony together and slipped away for ten minutes at the start of dinner - just us.
There were moments throughout the day where we weren't side by side. But for most of it, we were together. That was a choice we made before the day started, and it shaped everything.
If you do a first look.
You get to have a private moment with your person before the ceremony starts. It frees up time for portraits before cocktail hour, so you can actually be present with your guests afterward. If you tend toward nerves, seeing each other early genuinely helps.
FIRST LOOK OR NOT
THERE’S NO RIGHT ANSWER.
The photos will be beautiful either way. What matters most is how you want to experience it. Here's how to think about it.
If you wait for the aisle.
Keeps that ceremony moment intact. The first time you see each other is in front of everyone who loves you. There's something irreplaceable about that. And slipping away for portraits after the ceremony gives you some meaningful, private time together.
CEREMONY
BEFORE YOU WALK IN.
Lighting. Try not to position yourselves so one of you is in full sun and one is in shade. Even, open light is what we want. If you're outside at midday, full shade is better than a mix.
Phones. Consider asking guests to put theirs away. Your officiant can make the announcement before you walk in. Keeps the moment real and means I'm not working around a sea of screens when you kiss.
Your vows. If you're writing your own and want them to feel private, we can plan a moment before or after the ceremony, just the two of you. I can document it or give you that moment completely to yourselves.
The kiss. Take your time and enjoy it. And if the urge hits to kiss again as you are exiting, lean in. Every single time, the guests go wild.
Right after. Build in five to ten minutes immediately after the ceremony for just the two of you. You just got married. Give that a second to land before you share it with everyone else.
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An unplugged ceremony can make for better photos but more importantly, your guests will be more present and actually watch you get married instead of looking at you through a screen.
PORTRAITS
A LITTLE TIME, for JUST THE TWO OF YOU.
Couple portraits. Plan for a minimum of 30–60 minutes for just the two of you. If you want to go somewhere off-site, build in 90 minutes. I'll help you find a spot that works with the light and where you are.
For most couples, this ends up being the quietest moment of the whole day. Everything else falls away for a little while and gives you time to breathe. It's worth building time in for - not just for the photos, but for yourselves.
Sunset. If your day runs into the evening, we can pop away for about 10 minutes before the sun goes down. The light is soft, the day is winding down, and you're both more relaxed than you've been all day. Almost always some of the best photos from the whole wedding.
Family photos. I’ll have you send me a specific list before the wedding but plan for roughly 10 minutes per every six to eight groupings. It is also helpful to have one person on each side who can wrangle people. That single thing makes more difference than anything else.
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Fewer portrait locations is almost always better. The more time you spend moving between spots, the less time you have to actually relax and just be together. One great location beats four rushed ones every time.
DINNER AND DANCING
THE PART of the day WHERE EVERYONE LETS LOOSE.
Remember to eat your dinner (couples skip it more than you'd think). Everything after goes better when you're not running on adrenaline. Keep toasts short (3-5 minutes is the sweet spot) and give your speakers a heads up beforehand. If there are people you want to make sure you spend time with, build it into the timeline. The night moves faster than you expect. And if you want a send-off photo, let me know ahead of time so we can plan it - sparklers, confetti, a tunnel of people, whatever feels like you.
A note on lighting. Dark rooms require flash. If your venue allows candles and string lights, they make a real difference and create a warmer feel alongside it. If you're not sure about your space, ask me and we'll figure it out together.
A SMALL TIP
The couple sets the energy on the dance floor. When you're out there, everyone follows.
A FEW MORE THINGS
Last things worth knowing.
Give your day room to breathe. Back-to-back timelines make for stressed couples and stressed photos. Build in transitions. Give yourself time to actually be with your guests, have a drink, take it in. The moments you'll remember most are rarely the ones on the schedule.
Weather. The weather is unpredictable. Overcast is actually beautiful light for portraits - soft, even, flattering. If rain is in the forecast, grab some clear umbrellas. Some of my favorite wedding photos have been taken in the rain.
Put your phone away. If having phone photos matters to you, assign a close friend to be your designated photographer for the day. That way you get the best of both worlds - the casual photos and the freedom to actually be present without a screen between you and everything happening around you.
Reach out. I mean it when I say you can ask me anything between now and your wedding day. Timeline questions, vendor recommendations, whether a specific idea will work - I’m available for all of it.
A SMALL TIP
The couples who enjoy their wedding day the most are almost never the ones who planned the most. They're the ones who planned enough, then let go. Do what you can, then trust the day.
DO
Trust the plan you put together. You've done the work, now let the day happen.
Feel everything. The tears, the nerves, the joy. Don't hold back for the camera.
Check in with each other throughout the day. Even just a quiet moment between the two of you.
Let me know if you need a break from the camera at any point.
Eat. Drink water. Take it all in.
DO’S & DONT’S
A short list to come back to.
DON’T
Try to manage the day from inside it. You planned it. Now be there for it.
Redo moments for the camera.
Rush through the things that matter to get to the next item on the timeline.
Apologize for being emotional. You're allowed to feel all of it.
Spend the day worrying about how you look in photos. That's not your job today.
You planned a beautiful day. The best thing you can do now is trust it and let me hold the camera so you don't have to.
OH HAPPY DAWN - 2026 CLIENT WEDDING GUIDE
Plan a day you want to have. I'll make sure you never forget it.
xo Jenny
JENNY@OHHAPPYDAWN.COM